What took so long?
Truthfully, I’ve known for two years that my weekly review was expecting too much. But instead of fixing it, I held on to the template.
I don’t know if it was an effort to cling to a future ideal me or if it simply felt like too much effort to properly update the template. Probably a combination of both.
But every week did leave me feeling a little bad about myself.
Knowing I would share about it this week was enough motivation to re-work the template (ahem, external accountability at work). I removed a lot of steps, updated others, and re-ordered the sections since I would almost never get to the final Reflection step.
I also created a section called Feeling Ambitious? specifically designed for the days I might have the extra motivation and feel like tackling some additional tasks. It’s intentionally worded to remind me it’s not an expectation—it’s a bonus.
What would it look like if it were easy?
If there’s a plan in your life that’s overly ambitious or complicated, and you aren’t taking action because of this, ask yourself, “What would it look like if it were easy?”
Often we know the answer.
Perhaps we cling to the idea that we should keep the ambitious plans, as if letting go is a failure. But if the complexity means you aren’t taking regular action, the high expectations are failing you. Adjusting your plans to suit your current reality is a sign of self-respect.
So what can you change today?